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- Empati
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KÜLTÜR VE SANAT => Edebiyat => Psikoloji => Notice: Undefined index: topic_started in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 105
: kuzu Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 105
May 22, 2009, 07:18:53 PM
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: kuzu Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 May 22, 2009, 07:18:53 PM
Birbirimizi daha iyi anlamanın yolu Empati
“Senin yerinde olsam, şöyle yapardım” yerine “Acaba, senin yerinde olsam, ben nasıl düşünürdüm ve tavrım ne olurdu?” şeklinde düşünmeli ve karşıdaki insanı anlamaya çalışmalıdır.
Toplumumuzda çok sık iletişim kazaları yaşanmaktadır. Bazen hiç aklımızdan geçmeyen bir şey muhatabımızla aramızda, büyük bir problemin doğmasına sebep olurken, bazen de karşımızdakinin içinde bulunduğu şartları bilip değerlendirememe de iletişim bozukluklarına sebep olabilmektedir.
Bu durumlarda empati yapmak birçok problemi daha başlamadan önce çözecek ve insanları daha iyi anlama konusunda bize kapılar açabilecektir.
Öyleyse nedir empati?
Empati, bir insanın, kendisini muhatabının yerine koyarak, onun içinde bulunduğu şartlar ve imkânlar çerçevesinde, o kişinin davranış özelliklerini neden bu veya şu şekilde davrandığını anlayabilme durumudur.
Yüce Rabbimiz Kur’an–ı Kerim’de bize bir çeşit empati örneği sunmaktadır: “Arkalarında eli ermez, gücü yetmez küçük çocuklar bıraktıkları takdirde, onların halleri nice olur diye endişe edenler, yetimlere haksızlık etmekten de öylece korksunlar da Allah’ın cezalandırmasından sakınsınlar ve doğru söz söylesinler.” (Nisa, 4/9)
Burada Allah; sanki bize, kendinizi arkada yetim ve başkalarına muhtaç çocuklar bırakmış kişiler olarak düşünün ve dolayısıyla yetimlere karşı davranışlarınızı o bakış açısıyla yeniden değerlendirin diyor. Zira, bütün yetimler bir kişinin çocuğudur. Onların anne ve babası yerine ölen kişiler biz olabilirdik.
Öyleyse, insan “Onun yerinde olsam, yapardım” yerine “Acaba, o durumda onun yerinde olsam, ben neler düşünürdüm ve tavrım ne olurdu?” şeklinde düşünmeli ve karşıdaki insanı anlamaya çalışmalıdır. Zira muhatabı anlamak için onun o andaki ruhi durumunu, psikolojisini ve tepkilerini bilmek şarttır.
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: Kelebekler Diyarı Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 24, 2009, 08:52:06 AM
teşekkür ederim ...
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: kuzu Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 24, 2009, 09:55:51 PM
Rica ederim.... :)
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: PamukPrenses Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 25, 2009, 01:35:01 AM
insanları suçlamadan önce empati kurabilsek belki daha az kalp kırılır daha az dargınlıklar olurdu... ü +-/*te
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: Empati
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: kuzu Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 25, 2009, 08:22:49 PM
Evet Sorunda burda pamukprenses
Ben teşekkür ederim...
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: musalli Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 25, 2009, 10:20:50 PM
Empatinin tam anlamıyla gerçekleşmesinin mumkun olmadıgına ınananlardanım.. Hatta bu söz bana çok anlamsız gelır.. Kımse kımsenın yerıne kendısını koyması mumkun degıldır.. Belkı kıyısından bırseyler yakalanabılır ; fakat o zaman da onun adı empatı olmaz..
Mevlam'ın yarattıgı en onemlı varlık gozuyle bakarsak , ve bıze ogretılen ıslam cercevesı dahılınde davranırsak karsımızdakıne işte o zaman empatıden daha kıymetlı bırsey cıkacaktır ortaya ; kardeşlik gözüyle bakabilmek..Sakınmak, incitmekten korkmak, anlamak için çaba harcamak....
Konu ıcın tesekkur ederım kuzu..
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: kuzu Notice: Undefined index: search_on in /home/tsstfrm/public_html/Sources/Load.php(2272) : eval()'d code on line 117 July 26, 2009, 01:59:13 PM